KUPASONLINE.COM — Everyone certainly wants to have a good, loyal and polite boyfriend. This is because the courtship stage is sometimes a stepping stone to a more serious level, namely marriage. But not a few are also met with their soul mate without going through the courtship stage, they only know each other then become friends and decide to get married. So, if you want your courtship to go to the next stage, make sure you choose the right boyfriend. Most of us are trapped and unaware that our partner is not as good as we think. The problem is, sometimes everyone falls in love at first sight or just seeing his beautiful and handsome physique, he immediately falls in love. Even though beautiful and handsome are relative and what is certain, beautiful and handsome from within is very necessary compared to physical beauty. Choosing a good and right partner is very necessary if your dream is to make a boyfriend as your life partner, so you don’t feel like you are wasting your time just to have a love relationship that is not serious. So, here’s how to choose a good and right partner, so that your courtship is not in vain:
1. See Appearance
Even though appearance isn’t everything, at least you have to choose a boyfriend who can maintain his appearance, especially in public. The appearance here is to look polite, neat, and smell good. If your partner looks neat and smells good, you won’t be happy either, right?
2. His character and attitude
Pay attention to his daily behavior, also pay attention to his character and attitude in treating other people. If he treats others well, chances are he’ll treat you well too.
3. His age
In terms of age, choose a partner that suits your taste. If you are a woman, of course you choose a boyfriend who is much older than you. If you are a man, you usually look for a woman who is younger than you. But there are also those who choose otherwise, the level of maturity of a person cannot be measured by his age. It could also be a woman looking for a man who is younger than her, that is because of the maturity level of the man who can lead a relationship.
4. Obey Religion
If you have a religious boyfriend, it usually has a good impact on yourself. For example, if you are not a person who worships diligently, but because your boyfriend is a person who prays diligently, you will automatically be infected with this craft.
5. Clear Background
This is usually related to the boyfriend’s family. Also pay attention to how his family is. You can also try to get close to his family or siblings so that you know more about the true personality of your boyfriend. But if your boyfriend doesn’t have a family, maybe he grew up in an orphanage and try to find out about it through the orphanage. This is done because a girlfriend can come from anywhere and from any background.
6. Good Communication
Communication here means choosing a boyfriend who can make you connect with him well when talking, complaining and so on. Because basically, a boyfriend who connects with you will definitely be easier for you to understand and vice versa.
7. Find Out What are the Strengths and Weaknesses
In this case it’s not to dismantle the shortcomings it has, but whether or not you can accept the shortcomings it has. This is done so that later you will not be disappointed and regret it in the future. You also don’t have to cover up the strengths and weaknesses that you have. Don’t be perfect in front of him just to look flawless in his eyes. You have to be who you really are.
Find a girlfriend who is diligent, or can also be more diligent than you, such as being diligent at school/college, working, worshiping and others. Because the craft he has is a picture if he is diligent and consistent with what he does. And who knows the craft he has is contagious to those of you who are not diligent.