ENGLISH.KUPASONLINE.COM–Nowadays, who doesn’t know about the term dating, even junior high school students already know about the term. But now the courtship method used by ABG children is excessive, to the point where they can get pregnant out of wedlock, and in the end, the children who are born are thrown away, abandoned, and some even have the heart to kill them.
As a human who is different from animals, we should be able to think that these actions will bring great harm to ourselves.
Usually, in dating between couples there will be interactions of mutual praise and mutual seduction, here the role of faith will be tested, if a woman’s faith is not strong and tempted by the flattery of a man (her boyfriend) the woman might give up her chastity to prove her affection.
An unfavorable and certainly unhealthy courtship style will pose various risks that must be borne. The risks consist of various kinds, including contracting STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) such as syphilis, Genital Warts, Hepatitis, and even HIV/AIDS. Besides that, this bad courtship style will also lead to early marriage, and also increase the occurrence of abortion cases.
So, follow this article until it’s finished for those of you who want to enjoy a healthy dating style without fear of getting pregnant.
Previously, we also wanted to explain how a healthy courtship should be.
In a relationship/dating, each partner must be able to look after and protect the other, therefore each partner is not justified in hurting the other let alone violence occurring in that relationship. Hmm… you have to keep in mind that even when you’re emotional and for whatever reason if you have a difference of opinion or dispute, you can’t hit, kick or kill each other.
Physically healthy can also be interpreted if we can have a relationship without hurting our partner, we have the right to refuse if our partner asks and forces us to kiss or even seduce us to have sex. We also have to know when it’s time to defend ourselves if it turns out that our partner is a light-handed group, aka a bouncer.
Usually, the reason for couples to date/establish a special relationship is to seek happiness, because of that the relationship that takes place must be established with the cooperation of both parties so that a sense of comfort, mutual understanding, and openness arises.
People say that when you’re dating, the world seems to belong to the two of you..eating together…going alone…everything seems beautiful, but it turns out that a healthy courtship is a courtship that is not too binding, meaning that even though we are dating, our social relationship with others (family, friends, friends, etc.) must stay awake, if from the morning, afternoon, evening until the night we are always with him, as a result, we will not be able to associate with others, away from family and even we will feel alien to our own environment.
In addition, we often hear the term “backstreet”, this situation certainly makes those of us who are experiencing it uncomfortable, feeling depressed, and sad, this situation is far from healthy, so if we are in a relationship, we must introduce our partner to our parents, as much as possible, we must avoid backstreet because opening up to your parents about the relationship you are currently in will make your parents more trusting and it will be easier for you to be in a relationship because you won’t be playing “hide and seek” with your parents.
4. Sexually Healthy
Biologically, for adolescents or someone who has experienced the development and maturity of sex, without realizing it, dating also affects a person’s sexual life.
There are many ways to express our feelings of love for our partners, so it is very unfortunate if “physical contact” is the only way to prove love. Sexual activity in adolescents or couples with dating status is a risky thing because it can cause unwanted pregnancies, abortions, sexually transmitted diseases, etc.
Having a romantic love relationship is not a guarantee that a healthy courtship can be achieved automatically. The proof, many couples show a serious relationship, but in fact “hide” a lot of problems inside.
Recognize these signs of healthy courtship, so you and your partner can “introspect” yourself.